Who's Sorry Now? Nearly Everyone.
Jane Angelich carried the guilt around for more than four decades. Years ago, she had been cruel to someone and had never acknowledged her actions. Often, she thought of the person she had hurt and wondered: Had he ever forgiven her?
Finally, she decided she could carry her burden no longer. So last winter she went online and looked up the person she had mistreated. Then she apologized for telling him to “drop dead” when he called her house back in 1961.
They were both 10 years old at the time.
“When something is nagging at you for 48 years, you need to clear it up,” says Ms. Angelich, 58 years old, a pet-products company chief executive in Novato, Calif. “That was the meanest thing I ever did to anyone.”
Along with helping people reconnect with old flames, childhood friends and even long-lost relatives, the Internet is giving rise to a newer phenomenon: the decades-late apology.